admin December 15th, 2009

hannah asked: So ive been with my boyfriend for a year and i love him very much.
We plan on getting married in a year or two.
But lately, ive been having so many jealousy problems. I know people always say their significant other is good looking, but trust me, my boyfriend is VERY good looking. I had a huge crush on him before i dated him for a whole year because he was so gorgeous. but on top of that he also has an incredible personality. theres so much i love about him inside and out.
hes so great.
But because hes so cute, and genuinely nice, girls come at him like moths to the flame.
and its getting more frequent lately, these girls just dont care to think about the fact that hes in a relationship and has a girlfriend that he loves dearly. and i trust him because he always makes it known. hes never shady, he never lies, and he tries his best to stay away from these girls.
but because these girls continuously insult me and hurt me through him, i cant stand him being around them. I do not trust girls at all in general, and especially with my baby. Every girl he meets always ends up having feelings for him and i have been throwing angry fits, making him feel bad for things he doesnt do, almost ruining our relationship.
its getting really out of hand. i dont WANT to be mad at him, i dont WANT to be jealous, but it gets to me and then boom, like a disease, i get angry. I trust him deep down and know he never has or will do anything to hurt me. hes really a great guy.
so how can i stop my anger and jealousy? if i know that hes trustworthy, why am i feeling like this? is there something within im not aware of?
Ive been cheated by several guys before them but only one guy hurt me really. could that be the reason i cant trust easily?
Is it maybe hormonal problems? is there anything to just make it all go away? i really dont wanna be angry or upset. its so stressful and i dont wanna lose him just for something this silly.
i wish the girls would go away but thats not gonna happen so what else can i do to ignore it? Help please
Brock
Tags: Feelings, Moths, Personality